January 31, 2010

The Weekend

Had an interesting discussion with The Weekend group ytd. This group started on the last day of 2009, when all of us, who were passionate about social media, felt that social media was becoming too ‘commercialised’.

Case in point: Blogging
What used to be bloggers who were passionate about writing or blogging for various other reasons, became bloggers who blog just to get noticed or to get paid. Yes, you know who you are.

I was asked this question: If a PR practitioner offered me money to blog about a particular product, would I do it?

My answer?. Yes, of cos I would. Who in the right mind would reject monetary gifts?. But if the person for whom I’m writing for were to take what I wrote, edit the whole thing and ask me to post it, I would flatly reject him/her.

Reason being the article has lost the essence of orginality. Look, I’m not saying paid advertorials are bad things and nobody should do it, but the orginality of the writing should be felt be the person who’s reading it even though there’s a ‘ADVERTORIAL’ screaming at the top of the post.

Well, even though after a few hours of discussion, which eventually came to nought, I learned something. I realised how difficult it was for PR practitioners to create the BUZZ that they want for a particular product if bloggers become to ‘commercialised’.

I can’t wait for the next meeting.

January 14, 2010

Football has gone to the dogs.

Football used to be all about fair play and respect.

But sadly, there’s no such thing in today’s game. We have players who dive for to win a penalty, scream in to the referee’s face when things don’t go their way, and even knowingly score a goal with their hand.

And then now, we have a coach who comes out and order his players to handle the ball when they lose possession due to injury. This joker is none other than Arsenal’s coach, Prof Arsene Wenger.

Case in point:

Denilson was on the ball in midfield at the Emirates on Saturday when he suddenly collapsed in pain clutching his side, allowing Everton to launch a quick counter attack which almost won them the game.

But Wenger said: ‘I wasn’t upset that Everton played on. I said to Denilson that if that happens you have to commit a handball. I’m very serious.

‘If you go down and there hasn’t been a foul, you cannot ask Everton to stop their counter attack and not score. So, if you go down like that, at least put your hand on the ball and it’s a free-kick.’

What the hell?. I’m disappointed. Really. Such words coming from a learned man like Wenger. I’m a Manchester United fan, but I have great respect for Wenger. I admire how he build a team with players who are as old as me, and for giving good suggestion to improve the game of football.

But after his latest comments, my respect for him has gone down a notch. Remember, this is the same guy who claimed he was ‘blind’ when his striker dived to win a penalty.

For his latest comment, I believe that Arsene Wenger should be punished. Lest some kid in his school’s soccer team thinks its perfectly alright  to handle the ball when he’s fouled.

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sport/football/article-1242140/Arsene-Wenger-tells-injured-Arsenal-players-handball.html#ixzz0cbCEqGgm

January 12, 2010

Will this happen in Singapore?.

Reading about the churches that were petrol-bombed in Malaysia the past week set me thinking:

1) Will this lesson teach Singaporeans not to take our peaceful multi-religious society for granted?

2) This incident is too damn close to Singapore..

The whole incident in Malaysia started after the Kuala Lumpur High Court struck down the three-year old ban on non-Muslims using of the word ‘Allah’. This made some Muslim groups unhappy, so they went around bombing churches.

Here in Singapore, where different religions are able to live peacefully among each other, I fear that Singaporeans will dismiss this incident as a one-off and be complacent. We cannot afford to do that. The racial riots in Singapore was a good example. Do we want to see that happening again?.

The ability for different people of race and religion to live as one in Singapore is what makes us special. All it takes is one incident, e.g. The AWARE incident, to stir up discontent among the different groups and destroy this special relationship.

I pray that my Christians brothers and sisters will continue to trust that God will protect them. That Singaporeans too, will remember this incident, and never, let it happen here.

January 2, 2010

Goodbye 2009, and no, I don’t do resolutions.

And just like that, 2009 is gone. If someone told me at the end of 2008 that 2009 would be an eventful for me, I would have laughed my head off. But really, 2009 was a great year for me. I achieved my dreams of organising my church’s youth camp and returning to Cambodia. Relationships wise, I would live to believe that I’m more mature in handling them now. People walk in and out of my life. I don’t care when they will leave, I’m only concern if I will be able to learn anything from them.

Social media has played an important role in my life, without me realising it. The friends I made on Twitter are an amazing bunch of people. Their tweets inspire me and help me see the world around me. I spent the last few hours of 2009 at hackerspacesg with a bunch of social media enthusiasts talking about the future of social media. Though I wasn’t able to contribute much to the discussion, I was impressed that these people cared so much about social media. I counted down the last hours of 2009 with them, and by the time we sing finish ‘Auld Lang Syne’, I was ready to do my part for the future of social media in Singapore.

New year resolutions. Whatever for?. It cramps my style of living my life. I don’t make a set of rules to live every new year. I follow God’s rules of living and that’s enough for me.

So here’s to 2010. Have a great one!.

December 30, 2009

Capital Punishment: For or Against?.

Capital punishment is defined as ‘the execution of a person by the legal system as a punishment for an offense’. Capital crimes include Firearm, Murder and Drug Trafficking. But according to ThinkCentre, most of the capital punishments that Singapore has handed out are drug related offences. But as we all know, the drugs are still being handed out and the cases of drug abuse among the young are rising at an alarming rate. So, is the death penalty the way forward? Is it still relevant?

I agree with what he said, to a certain extent. I agree that murderers and criminals who go around shooting at people should be put to death. But drug traffickers? Yes, they ruin lives by selling drugs. But then again, if there’s no demand, will there be supply? What I’m saying is, it takes two hands to clap. I will talk about that again later. Let’s take a look at the general public who are against and those who are in favour of capital punishment.

The year: 2005: In the aftermath of the execution of convicted Australian drug-runner Van Nguyen, who was arrested at Changi airport three years ago while in transit from Cambodia to Australia with 400 grams of heroin in his possession three years earlier, Singapore’s Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong, defended Singapore’s decision to hang Van Nguyen. He said: ‘We think that drug trafficking is a crime that deserves the death penalty. The evil inflicted on thousands of people with drug trafficking demands that we must tackle the source by punishing the traffickers rather than trying to pick up the pieces afterwards,” he said.

Demand and supply. If there’s no demand for drugs, would there be a supply for drugs? My point is, there’s no use executing the trafficker and not finding out the reason for the demand. Why does this teenager need drugs? Why does he/she still do drugs even when they know the consequences?

Abolish the death penalty for drug trafficking. It is not working. Killing them doesn’t mean the end of the drugs issue. People are still repeating the same mistake. I say, educate them in prison and then release them into the society to educate soon-to-be drug abusers.

Whether we care to admit it or not, drug abuse is here to stay. Taking another human life with the knowledge that drugs is still flowing in the society out there is plain murder. Education is the way forward. But then again, the jury is still out on this issue.

December 29, 2009

Cambodia: Why it left an impact on me.

Well well. Haven’t blogged for a long time. Been really busy running around places. Never had a chance to sit down and composed myself. Finally, now I have a chance to that after moving house, youth camp, my trip to KL, going to Cambodia. Yes, my life is damn happening.

Cambodia. A place that I first visited 4 years ago and I made a promise to myself that I will go back every year to sow the seeds that we planted. But due to some unforeseen circumstances, I have been unable to do that.

And now 4 years later, I’m back. The customs officers  are still as unfriendly as before, the air still smells the same, the roads still as dusty as ever and the traffic is still horrendous.

But I notice a subtle change. There were more cars on the road now. Lexus, Mercedes and BMWs now joined the motorbikes and tut tuts in the fight for space on the roads. As the driver from church commented, ‘alot of cars for a third world country’.

It felt great to be back. I missed Cambodia and Cambodia prob missed me too :)

In the village, I did something I have never done before. And that was to wash someone’s hair. While I was washing the kids hair, there was this woman who wanted her hair to be washed, but for some reason, she kept hesitating. But I gave her a big smile and beckoned her to come.

She came, I washed her hair, and when she looked at me later, her face was full of gratitude. I was touched. I mean, I don’t do this everyday, and I’m no hair washing pro, so yups, her gratitude meant a great deal to me. She wasn’t done yet though. When we were washing the dishes, she came over to help, and during sermon she was very responsive too.

To quote a team member, she said: ‘If I were to live in this village, I don’t know if I am able to trust God’. I kinda of agree with her. I mean, walking around the village, we had to navigate our way around the countless animals’ dung. Village life is not for everyone. To see the kids there running around together with the chickens, ducks and cows, it is really incredible that these people still trust in God and come to church faithfully. What touched me was, God not only watches over average people like you and me, but people who have absolutely nothing.

And 4 days later, as my plane took off the runway, I looked down at the beautiful country below me. I remember the smiles on the people faces and the friends that I made. Tears came to my eyes as I prayed over the country. Most importantly, I found the main reason why God allowed me to go on this trip. Its the kids, or rather, the next generation.

I will miss Cambodia.

October 31, 2009

The tale of the Professor and the Father.

Hello people! Sorry for not posting for so long. Couldn’t find anything that I could really talk about and make my voice heard. But thanks to the Attorney General, Professor Walter Woon, who decided to FINALLY give his views on underage sex, and a father, who should I say, is overtly concerned about how the media is influencing his precious 13 years old daughter’s mind.

Let’s start with Prof Woon a.k.a The Prof.

Prof Woon was giving a speech at the third Children’s Society Lecture and decided to address the issue of underage sex. You can find the article at Channel NewsAsia.

He accepted that times have changed, and now, its the minors themselves who go out and actively look for sexual partners and prostitute themselves.

As what I see from some of the cases that come across my desk, they go out and solicit these contacts. In one case, she solicited it in her own home, not far from where I live…..It is not just the girls, but the boys (too)… male prostitute who went on the Internet, gay chatroom to earn money….”

He went on to admit that there were loopholes in the legal system when it involves two minors having sex.

“It is not easy and this is where the NGOs, the community services play a part. Obviously, it is not just for the judges. The judges cannot do very much by themselves.

Hear hear! Singapore’s lawmakers! Are u listening?. Pass a law which doesn’t protect the minor who is obviously guilty anymore. To borrow a line from Britney Spears, a 14-year-old teen will laugh into your face and say: ‘I’m not that innocent’.

But as what my dear friend Callan firmly believes, that punishment should come with teaching, Prof Woon says: “There has to be some follow-up. Even if you send the boy to jail, or the girl to jail, or both of them to jail, there has got to be something done. Sending them to jail per se would not make them reflect on their lives. That is the last thing that is going to happen. But good or ill, this is the framework that we have”.

The jury is still out on this topic. Watch this space.

Let’s move on to the Father.

I was reading The Straits Times on Friday, when I came across this article in Review:Insight. The article was on the new Censorship Review Committee. The article was titled ‘To snip, ban, hold the line or open up further?’

Mr Kevind Kao, 58, a father of a 13-year-old teen, thinks the world has gone ‘mad’ with the relentless exposure to explicit sexual content.

His views on sex is somewhat hilarious. He said ‘To me, sex is like a handgun’. You don’t teach a child how to use a gun. You take it away from him. So why are we teaching kids to wear condoms?’.

Welcome to the real world Mr Kao. As our friend, Prof Woon, who finally came back from his own world, I believe you will one day come to realise that prevention is better than refusing to accept that teens are more pro-active when it comes to sex now. I mean, come on, hand to your heart, can you keep watch on your daughter for 24 hours?. What if your precious daughter finds herself in a situation where sex is inevitable but she doesn’t know how to have safe sex because her daddy refused to tell her what a condom is?.

Please don’t get me wrong. I’m not encouraging minors to have sex. Or even safe sex for that matter. I’m a firm believer of sex after marriage. I’m just saying that why be a coward and run away from the topic?. Why not educate your daughter instead of denying her the knowledge about having safe sex?

I will end with this: This joker wants the Censorship Review Committee to ban children under the age of 18 to have phones with internet. Can you believe this man?.

Now, where’s that Pager?.

 

September 17, 2009

Evil is simply the absence of God.

Evil is the result of what happens when man does not have God’s love present in his heart‘ – Albert Einstein

September 9, 2009

We are what we are today because of history.

This article was orginally published in The Straits Times’ Youthink. The author, Eisen Teo, kindly allowed me to publish his work on this blog. Thank you once again Eisen :)

HISTORY is boring. Dead boring.

That’s the refrain of about half a dozen secondary school students I’ve talked to in the course of my work.

History is just about a bunch of facts and dates we have to cram for exams, they say. And what’s the significance of these facts and dates? They shrug; they aren’t sure.

Never mind that part of their O-level history examination is ’source-based’, that is, testing their ability to assess the purpose, arguments and credibility of a historical source, such as a text excerpt, speech or interview.

Everything still boils down to facts, facts and more facts. If you don’t hit the books and know what happened at this date, you’re done for.

With just two or three school periods a week – that’s no more than 11/2 hours – given over to history, the beleaguered teacher has little time or incentive to make the lesson more interesting. The priority still remains making sure the students know what’s going to be tested inside out.

No wonder history just becomes another boring subject to get over and be done with.

So what, you may ask.

The long-term repercussions may be severe: a generation of Singaporeans with little knowledge or interest in how Singapore came to be, and little understanding of the world around them.

In 2005, eight 15-year-old students at a school band leadership camp named their team ‘Hitler’ because they admired the dictator’s leadership qualities.

In hindsight, teachers said, their support for the man responsible for the death of millions during World War II was a combination of ignorance and a lack of understanding of history.

When founding father S. Rajaratnam died the following year, many young Singaporeans were left scratching their heads as to who he was, even though they recited every morning, hand on heart, the Pledge that he had penned.

Do we really want such ignorance and apathy?

The Government wants young people to remain rooted to the land in which they were born, long after they fly the coop. This was one of the 10 challenges Senior Minister Goh Chok Tong threw to policymakers last month.

A strong grounding in history may be the fertile soil for those roots. A keen interest in Singapore’s history and world history in general helps one understand this country’s place in the world.

Learning from past mistakes and taking a critical approach towards all ‘truths’ are other useful side benefits of a fruitful time spent on history.

What’s the solution, then?

To me, nothing short of an overhaul of how history is taught in schools.

Make history exams open-book. A radical move but it’ll test what’s most crucial: the analytical skills that not just a student of history, but any student, needs – not his ability to memorise facts and dates.

With this change, the history textbook will morph from an enemy into a friend, to be consulted at all times – and students will find it less onerous to read.

The curriculum must also move away from the raw presentation of events to the discussion of historical issues and methods of history, known as historiography.

Many historical facts can never be disputed – for example, the fact that Raffles set up a port in Singapore in 1819, or that two atomic bombs were dropped on Japan in 1945.

But the same facts can be employed to paint different narratives.

Depending on which sources one looks at, it could be argued that 1819 heralded the beginning of modern Singapore – or was simply the start of the latest in a series of trading emporiums on the island.

The latter thesis will be put forth in Singapore, A 700-Year History: From Early Emporium To World City, a new book by historians Tan Tai Yong, Derek Heng and Kwa Chong Guan.

Only then will students realise that historical texts are written long after the fact as a means to an end which varies with the author and the society he comes from. It will foster the beginnings of a healthy scepticism and sense of reality.

Is it too early for secondary school students to grasp such concepts? It’s worth a try to grab their fleeting attention.

The alternative is a lifelong rejection of anything to do with history.

And oh, please do devote at least an hour more a week to history. Take it as an investment for our future.

I love history. Yeah, I really do. I think its cool to know how the movers and shakers of this world came about. Yes, history can be boring at times but its not going to change a thing by using different methods of notes or presentation to engage the students. Its how it is taught.

A good history teacher is a person who tell great stories, who tells vivid stories that you feel like you were there at the time the event happened.

While I feel that having an open book format for exams is a great idea, I think that it won’t do anything to improve a student’s interest in history lessons. Students will just copy word for word without fully understanding the impact of the particular event in history.

So I say, leave the books and presentations alone. Find good storytellers.

August 31, 2009

Why read between the lines?

I read this letter, which was written by a Temasek Junior College student. The author named the letter: Violation of Secularism in a Singapore JC . Here is the full letter:

To whom it may concern,
 
I have wanted to send this email a long time ago. However, I felt that the time was not ripe. Following PM’s National Day rally 2009, I feel that it is the right time to inquire about secularism.
 
I am a JC2 student in Temasek Junior College, having previously attended St. Joseph’s Institution. I am an atheist by convert, having this (lack of) faith since secondary school.
 
I am quite grateful and inspired by the PM, raising of issue of secularism in schools. Despite being an atheist, I have always been comfortable in SJI as the institution is especially considerate for students having a different faith other than catholicism. The same cannot be say for TJC.
 
I feel uncomfortable in TJC because I witnessed a violation of secularism in TJC.
 
A few months ago, around May, the 32nd Student Council of TJC stood down and hand over to the 33rd SC. On the day, the President of the 32nd Student Council addressed the cohort. At the end of her address, she close with the phrase of “God Bless”
 
I feel that this is rather inconsiderate as it means that the individual is assuming that everyone believe in the same god. The individual failed to consider that some might believe in another religion (or no god at all in the first place). I am surprise that one can actually make such a provocative statement in a secular school. I would have accepted this phrase in SJI, but I cannot accept a secular school actually condone the action of ’blessing’ with a religion tone
 
The ministry might think that the fault lies in the individual. But I am very surprise that the college did not make any clarification to the address. which I take it as they agree with the phrase. When the speech included the phrase “God Bless”, I believed that a Secular school like TJC would have clarified without any one complaing or enquring in the first place. But the lack of action of TJC with regards to this violation of secularism in school is rather shocking.
 
I only write this email today because I believe that the government had clarified its stand through PM’s rally. I hope that the Ministry would look into issues of violation of secularism in school as secularism is one of the key principle of Singapore formation and education, whereby religion can co-exist peacefully because not one side is favoured. I hope that the Ministry will look into the matter and inquired into it further. Secularism must be preserved in our schools to ensure harmony.
 
I look forward to the response by the Ministry
 
Thank you

I find this letter very ridiculous. I mean, come on, its just ”God Bless’?!. Why the need to read so much in to this term and kick up a big fuss?. I disagree with this statement: ‘The individual failed to consider that some might believe in another religion’ If I was a Muslim, and I hear ‘God Bless’, I just take it as Allah. Simple as that.

Provocative statement?. Guess what?. I don’t think ‘God Bless’ was ‘Provocative’, I think that the letter is ‘Provocative’. The author read too much in to this statement. And by writing this letter, it goes to show that the author is trying to gain some kind of attention by stirring up some kind of dissent among the major religions.

If the author is really unhappy, why not take it up with his school and his teachers before writing this letter?. Trying to gain attention?. You be the judge.